Public Speaking:  Get 'em On Stage
Good public
speaking should use attention gaining devices. Here is one that works every
time: virtually every public speaking presentation I do, I find some excuse to
get someone on stage with me. When an audience member is on stage, the rest of
the audience is glued to the action for the following reasons:
1. They want to
see what is going to happen to one of their own.
2. They are
priming themselves to be up there.
3. They are
worrying to death that they may be asked to be up there.
Reasons 1 and 2
are good and reason 3 is not so good. For 1 and 2 the mindset of the observing
audience member is that, "I want to watch to see what my colleague or other
audience member will do when they are on stage. No matter how exciting you are
at public speaking, you cannot compete with the excitement generated by someone
who is on stage who is not "supposed" to be on stage.
The other mindset
is, "I BETTER watch what is going on in case I am asked to go up there." This
mindset is good too, because it forces the audience member to actually think
about the point you are trying to make.
For number 3, you
want to keep shy or sensitive audience members from withdrawing from your
program altogether because of the fear that they may be asked to stand up in
front of everyone. Public speaking is discomforting for them. This chance of
withdrawal is easily eliminated by the following statement:
In a
moment I'm going to ask for some / a volunteer to come on stage with me. Don't
worry. No one will have to come up if they don't want to.
If you have a high
percentage of shy audience members, you will almost feel the breeze as they
breath a sigh of relief at being able to avoid public speaking.
Now we will take a
look at what things you can do with them once you get them on stage. According
to a study done at the University of Wichita, public recognition is one of the
top motivators of people. If you claim to be "motivational" at public speaking,
it might be a good idea for you to use your highly public profile while you are
public speaking to give out public recognition. I find out the good things that
particular audience members have done during my extensive research before the
public speaking program.
Here are some ways
to use the information you learn:
- Recognize a
single audience member for a particular achievement, or for a period of high
performance.
- Recognize a
group of audience members for a particular achievement, or period of high
performance.
While they are
on-stage make a custom visual highlighting their achievement, or performance (If
you use an overhead you can give it to the audience member or team after you
show it. Do not forget to include your company name at the bottom of the visual.
Many times these will be hung on the wall in the organization which will give
you free publicity).
Another reason to
get an audience member or group on stage is for some sort of demonstration. I do
one where I'm demonstrating personal space across cultures. The person helping
me gets a good laugh from the audience as we interact.
Try to have pre
planned ad-libs ready to go for many of the comments
or questions you anticipate from the people on stage. You can also have someone
on stage to assist you in writing on the flip chart, changing overheads, or to
blow a horn when someone in the audience asks a good question. Use your
imagination.
Whenever, someone
is up there to assist you in your public speaking, make sure you give them some
kind of prize. One of your products is usually good because it gives you a
chance to mention it without using a hard sell. And just about always lead the
audience in a round of applause for the participants
as they return to their seats. Your audience will love your public
speaking.
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